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Written in the late 1980s and copyright 2001 by the Darrington Family I was born October 15, 1918. The Armistice ending the First World War was signed Nov 11, 1818. What a disappointment I must have been to my Dad and Armin, especially Armin. He was 3 1/2 years older than me. Arthur was born in 1916 but only lived 3 weeks and he was already stuck with three older sisters so I'm sure they would have liked a son. I certainly was never mistreated though -- my father was so kind and good to me. I didn't walk too early -- I could crawl so fast so Mother in desperation finally sewed dry peas in the knees of my pants. Since I was the only one not in school my father would dress me up warm and take me out to feed the stock. He would hook the team to a sleigh and load loose hay on it. (There were no bales in those days.) While he pitched the hay off I would hold the reins. When he became ill he would motion for me to come and sit on the bed by him. Mother would tell me to sit really quiet. I surely didn't realize what was ahead for our family when he died on March 22, 1933. He was only 41 years of age. When they lowered the casket in the ground Aunt Rosa Kaufman was holding me and she was trying to control her tears. I was just 3 but the above is still very vivid in my mind. John Burgener, our uncle, came to our rescue doing the chores for us during the funeral and after this Frederich Duersch who lived up spring Creek Canyon worked for us a long time. Mother didn't have much knowledge of farming and when she needed the horses harnessed, Armin would have to show her how to put the harness on. He was just 7 years of age. One summer we were playing across the creek in the open area when a big bull came charging at us. We all screamed and ran but he caught Hilda, put his horn into her head and threw her in the air. Fred Duersch came running with a pitch fork and finally got him out of the yard. It was the neighbor's bull. I remember Hilda sitting on a chair and Mother pouring buckets of water in her head to clean out the blood and dirt. It is nothing short of a miracle that she skipped a grade and was valedictorian of her high school class. All of us girls had very thick and long hair. Flora could sit on hers. The neighbors always wanted to know Mother's secret. One day Mother announced we were all going to get our hair cut. I was #1 - I cried and moved around so much that she cut my ear, the scar still remains. |
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Written about 1990. Copyright by the Darrington family 2001
MAURICE:
NAN: BRUCE: I love to follow Nan. I shall tell you a quick story about Nan. When we were little we used to spend a lot of time with our Grandpa and Grandma Darrington. Nan and I were out playing one day and Nan threw a rock through the chicken coop window. She broke the window and Grandpa heard the crash and came around the corner. He was really upset about the window being broken and as he got close to us Nan pointed her finger at me and he about beat the snot out of me. I I'll even have time to say I diI'llo it. I'm still mad about that. Ha. Well, I spent a little time driving up here today and wrote a few of the many high points on a McDonald napkin. Mom mentioned that we used to go to Burley to watch the posse practice and also went to rodeos because Dad was in the posse. At the rodeo I used to sit there by Mom and say, "How come those guys can't stay on those bulls. I could stay on them. How come they can't stay on those bulls. How come they have such a problem." Mom believed in object lessons - so the following day she took me out to the corral. What I saw must have have been a 2,000 lb Brahma bull (actually it was a small calf). She strapped my hand on it with twine. She tied a sheep shank so tight that it was impossible to come off. (Mom interrupts by saying, "I can't even tie a square knot!") Needless to say, about three hops and I was off the calf and bouncing around the corral with my hands tied to the back of the calf. I can still remember the words ringing in my ears, "HOW COME YOU Needless HANG ON?"
BILL: There must be something about that Teton Valley air or water for they have raised good people up there. I will ever be grateful to LaVerne for saying ‘yes’ and being willing to come down and join our family. She is the greatest thing that has ever happened to us. I continue to be grateful for this woman that saw fit to share the burdens and trials of this family she came into. She has always been a light for us, she has changed our lives completely. We were more or less on the loose, going here and there and every where. When she came into our lives, religion came into our lives. We owe her a great deal for that. She has been a great companion. As the children have said, we have been many places and we are looking forward within this next month to go on the tour to the Hill Cumorah Pageant. We are excited to see the highlights of the Mormon Church and also the highlights of our nation; Boston, Philadelphia and Washington D.C.
MYRNA: I'm next in line. I am the eldest of "ours." I came along when this crew was organized and it seems like I have always followed Mom where she went, she reminded me this morning of the rummage sale in Burley. Louise and I went along. We had great fun trying on the long dresses and modeling the clothes Mom was trying to sell. Also with Mom in the Relief Society we did a lot of banquets and we always helped in the back ground as Mom was serving others. She was a wonderful cook and could make a dinner out of practicaly nothing. All I learned how to do was set the table and make salads. I could make a great salad but she was too quick at everything else to get dinner on.
DALE: don't like to relate some of the things I remember about Mom. She was always there when we got off the school bus. When we walked in the house, Mom was in the kitchen making something. That’s been her trait throughout her life. She has always done things for other people. There is not a family in Declo that she hasn't taken a plate of maple bars or a loaf of bread or something to when people were sick. She always tried to help people.
ROYCE: Mom worked in the Teton County Court House when we lived in Driggs. I remember going to the court house after school and staying there until she was through working. Mom always had a job in the church. She was Stake MIA President for many years. I remember going with her to Girls Camp in Darby Canyon every summer. I had fun.
Louise:
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(Husband of La Verne Durtschi Sorensen Darrington) 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, July 21, 1999 Declo L.D.S. Stake Center Elder Max Craner, Presiding Bishop Neil Harper, Officiating Copyright 2001 by the Darrington Family Family Prayer by Dick Darrington {son} Prelude Music by Jana Darrington {cousin}
Bishop Neil Harper: Thank you. Good morning. We welcome you here to the services of
William Clark Darrington, our beloved brother in the Gospel. We want to thank Brother Dick
Darrington who gave the family prayer just previous to this. And also like to thank Jana
Darrington for the prelude music. We wish to recognize Brother Max Craner here with us from
the Fifth Quorum of the Seventies, also President Mendenhall on the stand with us. And we
want to thank each one of you for your thoughts and prayers and the beautiful flowers and the
cards that have been expressed and the consideration given to the good Darrington family.
Opening Prayer by Bruce Darrington {son}: Our Father in Heaven. We are gathered here today to honor and pay respect and remember with happiness the life of William Clark Darrington, our father, our friend, our grandfather, our brother, our son. We are so grateful for the opportunity we've each had to be touched in our lives by this great man. We thank thee for the eternal plan of the Gospel and the family plan of the Gospel. We are so appreciative and rejoice today in knowing that Dad is free from pain and suffering and in a great place of happiness and peace. We thank thee for the plan of salvation and the opportunity we have as families to be joined together. Particularly at times like this to remove the sting of death and help us have optimism and hope and promise of the future. We're grateful, Father, for the many blessings. We're grateful for this beautiful community and this land in which we live, in this community, particularly at this time of year, with all the beautiful crops that Dad loved so much. We thank thee, Father, for thy blessings upon him. We thank thee for the life which he was able to live. We are grateful for those who assisted him. We're grateful today for Mom, for both mothers, for Afton and for LaVerne, and we ask that thou will bless each of them. Particularly bless Mom, LaVerne, that she might be comforted today, that she might know of the great love which Dad had for her, and has for her. That she might know of the love that our family has for her and the support we offer. We are so grateful, Father, for the many blessings, for this opportunity we each have to be in this life, to experience the many wonderful blessings and opportunities and challenges, to be exposed to the bitter and the sweet, and we're grateful this day and ask thy sweet spirit to be here with us to offer comfort, to offer encouragement and hope. We love thee father and we love our Dad and we ask that thou wilt keep him in thy care. Bless each of us that we might be able to follow in his example and remember the things he taught us. Help us to be honest and upright. Help us to be true to the commitments we make. Help us to do those things that thou would have us do. Help us to follow his great example. Father we ask that thy spirit will be here with us today. Help us that we might enjoy this moment to celebrate and to remember a great man. Help us that we might receive thy comfort and love today. And be with us always, we pray in the name of thy son, Jesus Christ, Amen.
Life Sketch by Leslie Darrington {brother}: What a tribute you two boys have just given to
your father. In the interest of time and regarding my feelings and my wanderings and my
stuttering for my brother Bill, I am going to read my tribute to him this day. My dear wife and I
have rewritten this three times during the night. So if you will pardon me, I'm gonna read it.
I wish I was a little rockBill liked music, too. He was in the quartet once that performed all over the valley. Bill loved sports, as did all children and grandchildren. Bill was proud of their achievements and all the things that they accomplished--ball games and track meets they all excelled in. I'm sure he didn't miss many. We loved it when he shared their accomplishments with us. I guess one of the saddest telephone calls we received in Mesa, Arizona, was when Brad was killed. Bill couldn't hardly talk. Now they will be together and what a happy reunion. Bill and LaVerne made sure that we were not only to all the fun things but to all the blessings, baptisms, setting apart for church callings and weddings. With every wedding, another special person came into the family. I'm sure there was never a doubt in their mind they were special because that is the way they were treated. Whenever we went on trips and visited them, we were treated as special as LaVerne and Bill. Bill knew the importance of Church callings. He served as Ward Clerk for six years, Executive Secretary, Stake Sunday School Counselor, Stake Missionary, served on the Stake Genealogical Committee, Ward MIA President, High Priest Group Leader. He and LaVerne were also officiators in the Logan Temple. We loved that because they stayed with us two days every week. That kept us all caught up on the new accomplishments of their children and grandchildren. We really felt they belonged to us so we were glad for the sharing time. I was amazed Bill had time for so many church callings, he was so busy doing other things in the community. He was a Director for the Federal Land Bank for 34 years. He saw the price of land go up from $1 per acre to $2000 an acre. He was field supervisor for the Soil Conservation District. He served as a GI farm instructor after World War II. He was a member of the School Board. Also served as a 4-H club agent for Cassia County. It was no wonder that he wished he could be a little rock sitting on a hill. I am sure this could never happen to Bill and LaVerne, they were too busy making other people happy and being on hand when they were needed. It is too bad we don't have a record of all the funerals they attended and all the maple bars that were delivered. Yes, and how many of us remember the shelves that Bill has made and are in different homes today. They were more interested in keeping a record of their children and grandchildren. Bill and LaVerne have 9 children, 29 grandchildren, and 19 great grand children, and 2 great great grandchildren. Some time all of you should see the records Bill and LaVerne kept of their family. That record is priceless. It is a record going back to when each child cut his hair or his first tooth. What a dad, what a mother, and what a family. Whenever one of them needed them, Bill and LaVerne were there. Then when he needed them, they were there. I love all of you for what you have done for my brother and for LaVerne. I want to thank you for calling me and letting me be with him one last time in the hospital. I will never forget him reaching up, putting his arm around me, and saying "You are my brother Les, and that is May over there." Decisions are to be made as a family. My prayer is that you will always stay close together as a family, for I know this is what your Dad would want. LaVerne, bless your sweet heart. This is tough, but you have a family that will stand behind you, put their arms around you, love you. I don't know how they can love you any more than they do. Let's all be kind to one another is my prayer, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Barbershop Quartet from the Snake River Flats: Remarks by Bishop Harper: That was beautiful, and the life sketch was most interesting. It
feels like I missed out on a lot of Bill's life. But, it's a real privilege for me to be here and to be
asked to speak at this occasion.
Musical Number by the Grand Children and Great Grand Children
Speaker Elder Max Craner {a cousin}: Dear LaVerne and Family. We're assembled at a
reunion, minus one. And families of the Darrington's and the Bodily's, and others who are so
close, Declo and the Darrington's are synonymous. The Lord bless you and sustain you.
And clowns that caper in sawdust rings And just plain folks like you and me Are builders for eternity?
To each is given a bag of tools, We come to earth and blessed are we if we come into families like the Darrington's who are family oriented, who care about families and who sometimes other things can go by the by but families never. We may miss the water on the beets one time, but we'll watch the kids play. Because kids are more important. Brothers and sisters, we're losing that {idea} in our present society if we are not careful. And, please, Declo is the hallmark of families and families being together and children liking {wanting} to be with Mom and Dad because Mom and Dad loves them. And they love each other. And that's why as we assemble together we're gonna miss Bill. But we wouldn't want to keep him in the condition he was in. There are times when the mortal tabernacle just wears out. All that could be done was done and then with faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, we say "Father into thy hands we commend his spirit." He's worn out. It's a blessing. It's a time of remembering what he has taught us and we'll do that. Even President Hinckley says, "Life is like an old time rail journey. There's gonna be delays, there's gonna be sidetracks, there's smoke, there's dust, there's cinders, and jolts interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting us have the ride." And that's mortality. {Someone wrote} "Now, not every day passes over the earth, but men and women who are not known in the headlines of the paper are renown for great and worldwide deeds. But men and women of no note do great deeds, simple deeds." Alma said by little deeds they speak great words. And Leslie has reminded us of his good brother, and the Bishop who reminded us of that contagious smile of Bill's. You just couldn't talk to Bill or look at Bill or even as he rode down {the street} in his pickup and waved but what he had was that smile. There's something about a good man that the inside just comes out in his face. A poet says: "You don't have to tell how you live each day. You don't have to say if you work or you pray. There is a true tribaromoter that shows in its place however you live. It shows in your face." And Bill, Bill was transparent. And that smile indicated that the heart was there and well and that there was nothing to hide. Of these obscure heroes, the article goes on to say, the greater part will never be known until that hour when many that were considered great shall be small and as the scripture goes "And those who were considered small shall be great." And so a funeral is a time of reminding ourselves, as the oft heard poem goes: "Supposing today was our last day on earth, the last mile of the journey that we're to trod. After all of your struggles how much are we really worth. How much can we take home to God," And then I'll skip down for time's sake. "We're only supposing, but if it were true, and you can view all your deeds since your birth, and figure the profits you've made in life's deal, how much? really, now, how much are we really worth?" {David O. McKay, Gospel Ideals} And the Savior taught us that our greatest worth is in doing good to our fellow man. President McKay was once asked the question, Who was the most successful man or woman? Is it he who gets his names in the headlines or has important assignments or is it this and that and the other? And then he answered his own question and he said: "No. In this life the most successful man or woman is the most Christ-like man. He is our mentor, he is our teacher. And it is He that we should follow." As we understand that we lived before we came here to gain a body, great promises are offered, if we are obedient, in the next life. And he said in order to really fulfill the purpose of life I'm going to give a man and a woman, properly married forever, the opportunity to raise children--the greatest test of love between man and woman and family there is. And therein will they find their joy. Bill and LaVerne and Afton and the combined group, have apparently done so well to unite two groups of family. And not worried about who's is who or what's what, but we're together. And together we're gonna do the best we know how. We have the eternal promise of life hereafter. The Savior gave his life as an atonement to assist us in the doing. But He also gave His life as a witness through the resurrection that every one of us will come forth in a resurrection. What comfort that is to know that death is not the end, that associations that we formed in this life will continue. It just doesn't make sense to be ornery with each other because we're gonna be together forever. Nor does it make sense to take advantage of anybody because we're gonna be together forever. In other words, it just makes sense to do good and to love well and to be what we ought to be with what we know to do. I am a plagiarist of persons. I look around and I see you doing many things so much better than I'm doing it. But if you don't mind, I'd like to copy what you do as I watch you. I'll do it my own way, but I'd like to copy the good things that I see you doing. Max Craner isn't through with Max Craner yet and neither is the Lord. I feel sad for one day a man said "well that's just not me. How can I be that kind of a person?" And somebody else said, "well what's that got to do with anything. If the Lord asked us to do it, we ought to be marching in that direction." And so from Brother Bill, mention has been made of his hard work. Hard work is therapy. I remember my own dear parents in one conversation somebody said, "well, we were so poor growing up we didn't have psychiatrists we just had good neighbors." And hard work. The Lord said something about teaching our children to work. It is therapy. Bill was honest. All you had to do was shake his hand and it was better than a contract, though we live in a world where we have to have contracts. And Bill was honest. That's a great attribute. He didn't have to define the words in a hundred different ways. Honesty is honesty and that's all there is about it. Bill loved his family and he took care of them and he also loved the neighbors and many of you can attest to that. And so as we say how well we knew Bill and thank him, may we all unitedly recommit in our own lives to emulate those positive characteristics, especially his family that Bill had, that made him such a warm, happy man. Brothers and Sisters, there's a great spirit here in this meeting. At times like this, there are so many in the congregation I'd just like to bear witness that there's more that you cannot see present in this meeting than those that you can see. And that's what brings the special spirit to this meeting. Bask in the warmth of those on the other side of the veil who are aware of what's happening here. We wish that they could part the veil and not only bring you comfort, but say Hello, but just know that they love you, and are praying for you. And train up your children to know that they {departed spirits} love you and are praying for you, that one day we can always be together forever. I know my Heavenly Father lives. I testify that Jesus Christ is our personal Savior and Redeemer, and He cares, oh how He cares. I'm grateful to be a member of the Gospel {Church} of Jesus Christ that {which} not only gives meaning and purpose to life but just makes for Evelyn and I every day a better day through the understanding. And I pray Heavenly Father's blessings upon you LaVerne and your family, that whenever we think of Bill it's {with} happy thoughts, and it sustains us. And I pray the comforter, even the Holy Ghost, and at times like this his other name the comforter is so significant, will comfort you. You will feel close to Bill on many occasions and it will warm your heart, and you'd like to talk about it, but who can you talk about it with because your heart is being warmed. And may all of us rest assured that God lives. for He does and He is our Father. Of that I bear solemn and sacred witness in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Piano and Organ Duet by Louise Hymas and Myma Hall (daughters) entitled "Fragment From an Etude" Closing Prayer by Maurice Darrington {son}: Our Father in Heaven. At the conclusion of this service for William Clark Darrington, we humbly bow our heads and we give thanks for the opportunity we have had of knowing him. We are so grateful for the opportunity we have had to remember the things of his life. We are so grateful for the opportunity we have had of knowing him and being touched by his life. We're grateful for his influence. We're grateful for the lessons he has taught. We pray that thou wilt bless us that we might, each and every one, take those things which he has given to us that we might better our lives. We're so grateful for the things that have been said this day. And we are grateful for all the things that we have and we pray, Father, that thou wilt take us now to the cemetery, or our homes, our destinations that we might be protected, that we might be able to continue to enjoy this celebration of father's life. We pray that thou wilt bless LaVerne. Help her that she will be able to cope with this, that she might grow strong, that she might know of his love for her. We pray for these things and we do it in the name of thy son, Jesus Christ, Amen. 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from his brother Leslie Darrington. {July 1999} Copyright 2001 by Leslie Darrington. Us boys used to take the cattle to the foothills every day and herd them. There was a family, Elijah Reed, who lived in a sheep wagon, a covered wagon. We became very friendly. They would invite us to eat with them. They served us sauerkraut, mutton, sourdough bread and we loved it. In return, we would bring from home milk, eggs and butter. Mother churned her butter and grew her own garden produce. On our way home with the cattle, they would drink at the canal. For fun, we would force some of them to swim across. We nearly drowned the bull. Bill and I loved to go with our Dad to the mountains to get fire wood and logs to build our sheds, corrals and a potato storage cellar. We would be gone for three days so we had to take enough hay for the horses. We took the wagon box off the wagon and put three days supply of hay on the running gears and tied it on with ropes and chains that we would use to fasten our load of logs together. We put our bedding and lunch box on top of the hay. We took an extra coat as it got cool at nights. We had to get the Forest Ranger to stamp the trees we could cut. We had to hook a horse onto the tree we cut down and drag it to the wagon. It depended on the size of the trees how many we could load onto the wagon. We had to trim the brush off the trees so all we loaded was the pole. Bill and I would pile the brush so our campground was left neat and tidy. Our Dad taught us how to tie the poles to the running gear so it was all one unit. We were ready for the long ride home atop of those hard poles. It took more than one day to go home because the load was heavy and the horses had to work hard. We generally stopped at a water hole for the night. The family was happy when we arrived home safe. We also went to the mountains to get our Christmas tree. Generally we went as a family. Our tree wasn't like the Christmas trees of today. We had to cut it. It was a cedar or juniper. When we got it home, Father made a wooden stand so it was secure when it was decorated with strings of popcorn and colored chains made by gluing strips of paper in circles and connecting them together in a chain. We put little candles in metal holders and clipped them to a limbs. Christmas was a special happy time around our house. I think when Bill started school they had modern outdoor plumbing. They sat two in a seat in a classroom. He rode to school in a bus that stopped in front of the house. When he stayed for football or basketball, he had to walk home 3 1/2 miles. There were no activity busses then. Mother had the first Primary in the Declo Ward. She held it in our home because there was more children in our area than in the rest of the Ward. This lasted for about one year, then we went to the church house in Declo. Mother would hitch old Mag and Sorrel to the white top buggy and pick up all the children from our house to Declo if there was room for them to ride. Bill and I would ride Old Mag and Sorrel making room in the buggy for two more. Mother did this for years or until we got our car. Then our Father had to take us. If a thrashing machine was coming down the road or was thrashing close to the road, Mother had to go four miles out of the way to get around it as Old Sorrel was scared and would not go near the machine. Bill had a team that he could drive right up to the machine and they would stand there while he unloaded his load of grain bundles. Bill followed the thrashing crew, hauling bundles from the field to the machine for years. He rendered a great service to the farmers. Bill was loved by all he worked for. He worked for $4.00 per day and furnished his team and wagon. Bill had a special way of working with animals, they loved him and responded perfectly to his care and training. In Bill's last few years, he bought a gray saddle horse that he loved. He saddled him and tried to ride but couldn't because of the pain he had in his hip and back. This was a sorrowful disappointment to him. In our home, everyone was welcome and at meal time it was Bill's and my job to run down a rooster, chop his head off and get it ready for the pot of noodles Mother had on the wood stove. We didn't have a refrigerator or electricity. We bought ice in large blocks and put it in an ice chest and used that to keep our food cool. Our parents had a wonderful orchard: apples, peaches, pears, plums, apricots and 13 cherry trees. The cherries came ripe just at haying time. So we had to pick cherries each morning before we went to work with our haying crew. Mother used to get people to come and pick cherries for half--she gave them half of what they picked. Bill and I loved our Mother but we worried about her as she had to work so hard preparing everything for the family. Our sisters were very good and did their part in supplying the family needs. They taught school after their two years teacher training at Albion Normal School. We had the only telephone in the neighborhood--our number was 7751. The line had two sides to it, the R side and the J side. Many times when we needed to use the phone, the ladies for miles around were on, holding a club meeting. This telephone was one you had to crank to get the operator and she would ring the person you wanted. The operator knew all the business for the entire countryside. We delivered messages to all our neighbors for two miles away. People didn't seem to mind asking us to deliver messages. Bill would get on our horse and go deliver telephone messages to Stevenson's, Wolfs, Bunn's, Stein's, Anthon's, Uncle John, Uncle Fred and George Ward. In 1920 when the flu epidemic hit so hard we all got it but Bill and he had to do all the phoning. He stood on a chair in order to crank the phone. He knew the number of the doctor so he would transfer messages from Mother, who was in bed, to the doctor. We didn't have a radio so when Bill and I delivered telephone messages to George Ward, we loved to sit and listen with the headsets on our ears. Only one could listen at a time. We didn't mind delivering messages to them. His radio was run on batteries. We had a phonograph that played large round discs and you had to crank it up to get any sound. We would buy new records to get different songs. This would be one of our Christmas presents. Our Father bought the first Chevrolet car that was sold in Burley. Boy were we up in the world. The roads were just wagon tracks, no gravel and when it rained, it was a mess to try and get around. We were stuck many times and had to walk home and get the horses to pull us out. There was no spare tire so if you had a flat, you had to jack the car up, take off the tire, repair it and put it back on, pump it up and go on. This is where we learned to leave home one hour earlier than we do today. There was no glass windows--only side curtains you rolled up or down to shut out the rain. These curtains had isinglass sewn into them to see out. Today it is plastic. Mother thought she should learn to drive so Father didn't have to quit his farm work. She lasted only one trial lesson as she ended up in a ditch and said "I will never drive a car again" and she didn't. She told our Father where to go. Father always said "I do the steering and Mother does the driving." One of Father's and Mother's top priorities was to see that we were all to our meetings on time-- regardless of distance of travel. Father was Ward Clerk for 13 years and was a wonderful scriptorian. Meeting schedule because of distance of travel.
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